On iOS, if the app is closed the startup options are only passed as the
`launchOptions` dictionary of `applicationDidFinishLaunching`. Thus add a helper
method to be called from there by embedding applications so we can copy that
dictionary.

Also expose this in the native SDKs.

The current implementation doesn't use the API and Transport modules. This is
due to the fact that they are too tied to APP at the moment, which is web only.

Once API is refactored and moved into the Redux store this will be adjusted,
though it's unlikely that the lowest level React Native module (ExternalAPI)
changes drastically.

This commit also introduces a stopgap limitation of only allowing a single
instance for JitsiMeetView objects on both Android and iOS. React Native doesn't
really play well with having multiple instances of the same modules on the same
bridge, since they behave a bit like singletons. Even if we were to use multiple
bridges, some features depend on system-level global state, such as the
AVAudioSession mode or Android's immersive mode. Further attempts will be made
at lifting this limitation in the future, though.

1. Aligns the project structure of Jitsi Meet SDK for iOS with that for
   Android for better comprehension.

2. The command `react-native run-ios` uses the last Xcode project or
   workspace in the list of these sorted in alphabetical order. Which
   limits our freedom in naming. Thus having only an Xcode project in
   the root directory of the iOS project structure gives us back the
   freedom in naming.

3. Allows the Podspec to work for the app project in addition to the sdk
   project because we need Crashlytics in the app which is integrated
   via Cocoapods as well.

4. Further removes references to JitsiKit in the source code for the
   sake of consistent naming.