jvc0/resources/prosody-plugins/s2sout_override2.patch

diff -r 214a679823e8 plugins/mod_s2s.lua
--- a/mod_s2s.lua	Mon May 01 15:10:32 2023 +0200
+++ b/mod_s2s.lua	Wed May 24 11:53:34 2023 -0500
@@ -230,6 +230,10 @@
 			resolver;
 		});
 	end
+
+	local pre_event = { session = host_session; resolver = resolver };
+	module:context(from_host):fire_event("s2sout-pre-connect", pre_event);
+	resolver = pre_event.resolver;
 	connect(resolver, listener, nil, { session = host_session });
 	m_initiated_connections:with_labels(from_host):add(1)
 	return true;