* change connection quality to take layer suspension into account

* Support layer suspension

Add support for a message which notifies the endpoint whether or not it
is selected (meaning its HD stream is in use).  If it is not
selected and enableLayerSuspension is set to true then it will impose a
bandwidth limit in the SDP to suspend sending the higher layers.

* only add the IS_SELECTED_CHANGED listener in JingleSessionPC if layer
suspension is enabled

this prevents doing a local o/a when we don't need it